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Holistic Parenting 101: Your Guide to Natural Solutions for the Kiddos!



As parents and caregivers we desperately need tools in our toolbox, but how do we know if we’re doing it right? How do we know if we have the right ones and when to use them?


Judgment abounds, questions run rampant, answers seem difficult to find. We aren’t here as healthcare experts, but as fellow moms, parents, and caregivers who want the best for our families.


Keep reading for some natural options for your family’s needs, and tips to help stay above the wellness line as well as deal with the inevitable bumps in the road.




Essential Oils for all Ages


Wondering when you can start using oils on your little ones? 


Anytime! We use oils from pregnancy to birth to all childhood and adult ages. Many of us have used Frankincense on our newborns at birth. The key is simply to use a tiny bit. For newborns, you can place one drop of oil in your hands, rub them together until no oil is visible, then rub your hands onto your baby’s feet, legs, arms, etc. The residue is enough for them!


Young Living’s oils and products are made for the whole family. There is something for everyone! The majority of people choose to dilute for children, diluting more for the youngest ages. Diluting slows down the process of the body metabolizing essential oils.


When diluting oils for topical use, you just need a carrier oil! Organic coconut oil is great for general topical use, and so is Young Living's V-6 carrier. It is a liquid, so you can use it to apply oils directly to the skin OR to make a roller blend!


We love roller blends, so we usually use 10mL roller bottles and add the oils we want, plus a liquid carrier. Easy peasy!!


Dilution Ratio Suggestions for Kids


You may want to dilute some oils more than others, and some can be used directly from the bottle. Fun fact: each oil has a suggested dilution ratio right on the bottle! You may have to peel the label back to find it.


  • Age 0-1: dilute at 1/8 the labeled concentration

  • Age 2-6: dilute at 1/4 the labeled concentration

  • Age 7-11: dilute at 1/2 the labeled concentration

  • Age 12+: full labeled concentration


KidScents Oils & Products


Ready for the easiest easy button? Young Living has an entire line of products and oils created for kids. (That doesn’t mean we don’t use them for ourselves too though!!). The pre-diluted oil blends and rollers in the KidScents oil line and other products are ready to go for ages 2+ and so easy to use.


Seedlings Line


Want an even more specific line for your newborns and babies? Say hello to Seedlings. This line has diaper cream, baby wash/shampoo, lotion, massage oil, baby wipes, and the dreamiest Calm blend that is specifically made with the tiniest members of your family in mind!


Diffusing


Diffusing is another great way to have your children experience oils, and it is so easy! We’ll talk more about that in a bit, but just know our diffusers are going 24/7/365 because they are so beneficial!




Nourishing the Body


You want to feed your family well, but what about when they really don’t want to eat it? What about when your busy life is spiraling and your Pinterest meal planning superpowers are missing? What about the times when you’re just desperate for them to just get one good thing in their bodies? 


Perfect meals rich in every key vitamin three times a day is an impossible goal. We do our best, but perfection isn’t what we should really pursue. 


So what do we do?


We choose a few easy buttons. You know, the things that our kids can do easily, even when we're in a hurry, and they might even love! When we start our day with these supplements, we know that whatever else we may fit in or miss, we have these foundational blocks in place!


Nutritional Easy Buttons for Families


  • NingXia Red: 1-2 oz per day of this antioxidant-packed, nutrient-rich, whole-food supplement means that little bodies have gotten in body and brain building blocks it would take pounds of produce to achieve. In our families, everyone 2 years and up pulls out their NingXia Red each day knowing that we feel our best when we're nourished well! Bonus points: this one supplement is clinically proven to improve sleep, physical and emotional stress, and brain power!


  • KidScents MightyVites: chewable multivitamin tablets that are a tasty, effective way to provide children the full spectrum of vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, and phytonutrients necessary for healthy development. (For the teens in the family, they can move on to our whole-food multivitamin supplement, Master Formula.) 


  • KidScents MightyZyme: an all-natural, vegetarian chewable tablet designed to help children combat the negative effects of enzyme depletion and address each of the digestive needs of growing bodies. Digestion support is key so that even when you're eating great foods, you're actually getting all of the benefits! 



Nurturing the Emotions


Every day our kids are having new experiences and learning new things. That is a lot of emotional processing!


Essential oils can play a key role in this process. The sense of smell is our only sense that bypasses our conscious “regulation” interception and moves straight to the cortex of the brain to go to work. 


Simply put, essential oils can work with the brain to clear pathways, move out unwanted sludge, and release creativity and joy. 


Here are some favorite oils and blends we use in our home! We often use very simply by diluting if needed for the child and apply to the bottoms of the feet for easy absorption into the body, applying down the spine, or breathing from the palms. Also, these are perfect for Mom too, becauses we need ALL the emotional support for this hardest, best job in the world!


This blend of Tangerine, Orange, Ylang Ylang, Patchouli, and Blue Tansy will surely become a favorite in your family to relax the body and calm emotions. This oil can signal overtired and overworked body systems that it is a safe space to release stress and invite in a sense of calm. It is affectionately known as the ‘Tantrum Tamer’ and  is also one of our favorites for supporting sweet, restful sleep!


Valor is our oil for balance, bravery, and stress. It blends Frankincense, Black Spruce, Blue Tansy, Camphor Wood, and Geranium and basically smells incredible. It has Blue Tansy, which is wonderful for calming the fight/flight/freeze response!


Stress Away is a vacation in a bottle. A unique combination of Lime and Vanilla that is the perfect blend of tropical and citrus. Such a sweet and delicious-smelling way to breathe deeply, calm overwhelming emotions, and achieve a happy and positive attitude!


Frankincense 

This household staple oil has an earthy, uplifting aroma that’s perfect for grounding and connectedness. Create a safe and comforting environment when you diffuse or inhale this empowering oil—a perfect opportunity to collect scattered thoughts and process a busy day. 



Feeding the Brain


Ever have trouble making decisions or just feel grumpy after a huge carb load or a weekend of less than stellar foods? It is highly possible that you were simply undernourished or hungry… and your brain was suffering! 


Studies have been done that show many of us are actually starving our brains. Despite an abundance of food, unless we are carefully maintaining a balanced diet with good, high quality fats and proteins, the brain is left running on fumes resulting in brain fog, scattered focus, and an inability to learn easily.


And even when we have that balance that is key, each individual is so different and our environments play such a huge role, that we need a little boost to help us out.


Mamas have to tell other mamas about the easy and simple tricks we use to get solid, high quality nutrients into our day. Here are ours!


NingXia Red

We mentioned this supplement powerhouse earlier, but it is absolutely worth mentioning again. This one drink can do so much -- boost overall health, decrease stress, improve sleep, decrease unhealthy inflammation, improve focus, bolster immunity, and more. It is a Whole-food, nutrient dense supplement full of vitamins, minerals, amino acids and polyphenols that every single person on this planet can benefit from -- regardless of age! 


Mindwise has a sweet, berry flavor that kids usually love, especially paired with Ningxia Red in the mornings! MindWise is a great way to add healthy fats to your NingXia because it combines exotic sacha inchi nut oil and MCTs (medium chain triglycerides). It also features ALCAR, GPC, and bioidentical CoQ10, ingredients that have been studied for their beneficial health properties. Generous amounts of vitamin D3 and a unique delivery method create a premium supplement that supports normal memory function and overall cognitive and cardiovascular health.


Pure Protein Complete (Vanilla Spice or Chocolate Deluxe)

This protein powder is our go-to for easy nutrition for our kids -- it’s truly top notch. Our kids love smoothies with this! It combines a proprietary 5-Protein Blend (cow and goat whey, pea protein, egg white protein, and organic hemp seed), a full range of amino acids, enzymes, and ancient peat and apple extract and has 25 grams of protein per serving.  And it is delicious!



Diffusing for All Ages


Are you ready for the easiest health hack there ever was?? 


Say hello to a lovely diffuser and some essential oils. For real. This stuff is clinically proven to improve brain function, stimulate creativity, and shift our moods and emotions.


We all know that kids are not always super cooperative when it comes to our great health initiatives. We are doing big and great things for their bodies but they don’t necessarily WANT to swallow, apply, or try…well, anything.


This is where oils are HUGE for mamas. Game-changing, even. 


Right there in the room with our kids, whether little ones, teens, or grown-ups, we can send puffs of delicious smelling oils right up into their noses. They don’t have to lift a finger, or do a thing. (Remember how the sense of smell connects directly to the brain??!) 


Try one of these or let your creativity flow and create your own blends together!


Good Morning, Sunshine!

4 drops Peppermint

3 drops Lemon

2 drops Citrus Fresh


Homework Time!

3 drops Raven

4 drops Lemon

1 drop Frankincense


You Can Do This!

4 drops Valor

3 drops Stress Away

2 drops Lavender


Some of our favorite essential oils for focus


  • Lemon - uplifting and cheery, studied for its positive effects on memory retention.

  • Peppermint - awakens the senses, stimulates the brain, and puts a pep in the step!

  • GeneYus - an excellent pre-diluted blend formulated especially for children and perfect to diffuse for young minds that need support as they focus and create. Containing oils like Sacred frankincense, cedarwood, Myrrh, and Vetiver, this blend is a heavy heater for school days at any age. It’s also great applied to the back of the neck! 

  • Vetiver - an earthy oil that has been studied for helping little brains to gather and focus!



Bathtime Routines


Oh, the routine. We love it and at the same time, sometimes we scramble to find a sense of normalcy and calm even on a weekday with all the hurrying, going, and meeting ourselves in the middle. 


BUT. Kids thrive on routine. The same activities, places, people, and SMELLS help them to feel safe and secure. That’s why bathtime and bedtime can be so important as we repeat processes, stories, songs, and back rubs.


In our homes, it is very important to us that we carefully evaluate the products going on and in little bodies. They have growing and developing to do and things like endocrine disrupting ingredients are simply not welcome. We want bubbles, baths, toothpastes, and lotions to be safe and beneficial for little bodies. And for those tween, teen and older bodies too!!


We don’t want….

Synthetic Ingredients

Fragrance

Low quality essential oils or essences

Mineral oils

Synthetic perfumes

Artificial colorings

Toxic ingredients

Unnecessary ingredients


And we want the easy button for it all…. Well, we have it!


  • KidScents Shampoo -- contains no synthetic perfumes, colors, or toxic ingredients. The natural components in this shampoo—aloe, MSM, Chamomile, and Tangerine and Lemon essential oils—effectively and gently cleanse without causing irritation.

  • KidScents Lotion -- contains safe, gentle ingredients to moisturize and soften sensitive skin. The premium blend of MSM, shea butter, aloe vera, and pure Cedarwood, Geranium, and other essential oils supports healthy-looking skin for children of all ages.

  • Young Living’s Bath & Shower Gel Base -- This is the perfect way to nourish and cleanse your skin. We love this unscented base because then our kids pick favorite oils to add like Peace & Calming, Lavender, or Stress Away! This is also a great option for older kids and young adults!

  • DIY Bath Salts -- not much of a true DIY so anyone can do it. Take a handful of epsom salt or magnesium flakes, add a few drops of essential oil (10/10 recommend Peace & Calming, Lavender or Frankincense!), and add to bath water. Sooth skin, calm emotions, and just feel amazing.




Restful Sleep


Ohhh the life-changing magic of sleep. It is so so sweet and yet so elusive sometimes as parents.


Essential oils to the rescue again! Those same benefits that help with calming emotions and focusing on a task can now work with the body to promote a good night’s sleep.


Sleepytime is a great time to apply and diffuse oils! We have diffusers in every bedroom in our home (and many other rooms as well!). Science has shown us tremendous benefits of diffusing oils before and during sleep (improved memory, sharper brain function, more creativity), and it just sets the perfect environment for rest!


Restful Sleep Routines


  • Diffuse and apply your  favorite sleepy oils at bedtime -- Lavender, Peace & Calming, Valor with Frankincense, and/or KidScents SleepyIze 

  • Make Peace & Calming part of your nightly routine. This is SUCH a great way to wind down bodies and minds. Make a simple pillow spray with 10 drops Peace & Calming and water to spritz on pillows, blankets, and lovies.

  • Diffuse and/or apply Frankincense. This oil has a warm, earthy scent that has been used for centuries to calm the mind. Add in a little Lavender for relaxation and you have a winning combo!

  • Everyone has a slightly different preference for sleep oils (although Peace & Calming is a hit for everyone!). Some other oils to consider: Vetiver, Mastrante, Cedarwood.

  • As much as possible, spend about 20 minutes helping calm their bodies and minds. Apply oils, then read, talk about the day, ask questions, etc. before turning out the light.


SleepyTime Diffuser Blends

  • Lights Out: 4 drops Peace & Calming, 4 drops Lavender

  • Calm Time: 4 drops Lavender, 3 drops Frankincense

  • Sweet Dreams: 3 drops Valor, 3 drops Tangerine, 2 drops Frankincense



Simple Remedies for Head, Ears, Throat & Tummies 


Having oils on hand when issues arise and having simple actions on using them is the best source of peace and empowerment in parenting! We keep our oils in our toolkit all the time, and when the bumps in the road come we diffuse them, apply them, add them to baths, etc! 


All Things Head

Congestion, tension, achiness -- oh my! Grab your Owie or some diluted Peppermint with Lavender and gently massage into shoulders, necks, and around temples (avoid the eyes, but if it gets in apply coconut oil liberally). Diffuse Peppermint with Lavender to soothe, and consider a bath with epsom salts, Frankincense, and Lavender. For more congestion-related head needs, add in Raven or R.C. to open the airways.


All Things Ears Toolkit

Whether you need some help with swimmer’s ear, teething little ones, or frequent pain from colds and such, we have you covered. Grab Owie and/or Copaiba for pain, layered with Purification for immune needs. Rolling them around the ear and down over the lymph nodes can work wonders! Don’t put oils directly in the ear, just around them. 


All Things Throats Toolkit

Dry, sore, scratchy throats are never fun. For this we reach for immune support with Thieves, Lemon, and Frankincense! Diffuse, apply, even make a large mug of echinacea tea and add a drop of Lemon. We also love to make a roller with these oils to apply to the feet, spine, and over lymph nodes. Do this frequently -- every hour or so.


All Things Tummies Toolkit

When it comes to tummies, TummyGize or DigIze will be your new best friend. Roll onto the belly as needed! Also make sure your little ones are on MightyPro for a high quality probiotic. Older children can take Life 9 probiotic capsules.




Tools for Teens and Preteens


As our kids grow, their needs shift as well, and we have lots of tools for that as well! Many of the same oils and products we use for younger kids easily transition to older ones! Add in a couple other favorites, and you have a toolbox for not just surviving but thriving in pre-teen and teenage years!


EndoFlex

One of the best things you can do for tweens, pre-teens and teens is to help them balance out their hormones with EndoFlex! This oil combines Nutmeg, Myrtle, and others for a blend that supports the entire endocrine system -- thyroid, adrenals, pituitary, and sex hormones. Today's environment and habits put early strain on these areas of their health, so this blend is essential in their daily routine! 


Valor and/or Peace & Calming

We’ve already talked about these powerful emotional oils, and they are great options for pre-teens and teens who are navigating those years and hormones and feelings! These two make a wonderful daily cologne or perfume for your teens, and their brains will begin to associate the scent with a feeling of calm and confidence!


MightyVites or Master Formula

The same way that nutrition is key for little ones, it’s key for our teens as well! Wither you use chewable MightyVites or switch to Master Formula, a high quality multivitamin with minerals and micronutrients gives them the foundation they need for growth!




Grab my favorite Products


Premium Starter Bundle & KidScents Bundle 


You’re ready to fill your toolkit with things that you can use daily and tools for the bumps in the road. Your only regret will be not doing it sooner!! (Trust us on this, we’ve been there!)


Here are two great options for you:



Option 1: The Premium Starter Bundle


The Premium Starter Bundle is your introduction to a fresh, new lifestyle free of harsh chemicals and products! This starter bundle is packed with some of our favorite essential oils, your choice of diffuser, roller fitments, hand purifier and more. This bundle has so many of our favorite, most-used oils we talked about in this class! It includes: 










Option 2: KidScents Little Oilers Starter Bundle


The pre-diluted KidScents oils are some of our most reached-for oil blends, and they come in a collection with the cutest diffuser around - the Little Oilers Starter Bundle! This bundle includes pre-diluted KidScents oils, roller tops, and a diffuser:


  • TummyGize - for happy tummies

  • SniffleEase - for easing sniffles

  • Owie - for owies

  • SleepyIze - for restful sleep

  • GeneYus - for school and homework

  • The adorable Snowy the Owl Diffuser - also serves as a nightlight, sound machine and humidifier!

  • Two roller fitments to add to any oil you like (We recommend TummyGize and Owie!)


Grab your bundle and get started with simple, effective, and lasting lifestyle changes today!




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